json: drop unrecognized enum string names per proto3 spec

decode_enum returned the raw input string for unknown enum names,
which then propagated through the codec and errored at encode time
with "unknown enum value '...'". For repeated and map fields the
spec requires *dropping* the element (not substituting 0), so the
encoded output should be shorter than the input.

decode_enum now returns nil for unrecognized names. The optional /
repeated / map call sites in decode_message skip nil values: optional
leaves the field unset (encoded as default), repeated compacts the
array, map omits the entry. Numeric and known-name inputs are
unchanged.

Drops 5 entries from test/conformance/known_failures.txt:
IgnoreUnknownEnumStringValueIn{Optional,Repeated,RepeatedPart,
MapPart,MapValue}.

Initial commit: protoc-gen-tarantool plugin + pb runtime

A protoc plugin (Go) and a pure-Lua + LuaJIT-FFI runtime that give
Tarantool a complete proto3 + gRPC stack. Two codegen modes (full
inline / runtime descriptor), 226-test luatest suite, 18-fixture
mainline-protoc interop corpus, JSON codec, well-known types,
gRPC client/server factories, runtime .proto parser, microbench
harness with allocation regression gate.

Covers PLAN.md M1-M5. Module is `pb` (not `protobuf`) to avoid
colliding with Tarantool's built-in encode-only `protobuf` module.